Need get rid of … Need get rid of extra fat ? No Problem This new Diet Supplement will help you to get perfect results fast and easy. Also the results will last longer, Order Your Free trial today. See more at my profile
Thank you. My goal … Thank you. My goal is actually not to lose weight. I was and am at my ideal weight. My goal is really to improve my health and quality of life. I have found that by eating more fruits and greens (green smoothies are great for this), I feel better. I also feel better when I do yoga, and take walks, but I have not done yoga in a long time. Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I hope you and your family are happy and healthy.
thank you, I pray … thank you, I pray that when you reach your weight loss goal that it leads you to more peace and happiness. Also, if you run into any information/materials that you think might be useful to me please vblog/contact me.
Lately, what I have … Lately, what I have been doing is primarily focusing on my work, which I love. When people bully me, I go through all the emotions, but as I encounter more of these people, I have started going through the emotions more quickly and with far less effect on my well-being. I am almost to the point where I skip ahead to simply learning from the criticism or ignoring it and feeling sorry for the perpetrator. Those people try to weaken us, but I am learning to use their attacks to strengthen myself.
Thank you for your … Thank you for your kind words. Is there anything that your doing/reading/etc. to help you with your journey? Also, what do you do to maintain your sanity about mean spirited people? I internalize it and feel as though I coming off as a weak; and that I am not doing enough to stop abuse/bullying.
It takes time but I … It takes time but I am finally getting to the point where I feel safe enough to let my body be healthy (and attractive). Be kind and loving to yourself. ((hugs))
I can definitely … I can definitely relate. Losing weight scares me because being overweight and muscular helps me feel as though I can protect myself and my daughter. However, I am not healthy and do feel unattractive. I am satisfied/happy because it give me a sense that I have a fighting chance. I am on a journey to shake the feeling off. (karate lessons is not in the budget)
I just noticed that … I just noticed that my comment to you was made on my husband’s computer, and was therefor under his name. I apologize for the confusion.
I’m sorry you have … I’m sorry you have had to deal with similar issues. I am finally getting past mine and it feels so liberating. I still dress like a lump, but I am beginning to feel at home in my skin now. I hope you love your body too. ((hugs))
Melanie,
I’m so … Melanie,
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. ((hugs)) I think of this line in a song Cindi Lauper song called “Little Boy Blue”. She said “He may have stolen your innocence, but not your soul”. And it’s true. I felt destroyed for a long time, and it still hurts, but they didn’t take away who I am, it just made me stronger…You too. ((hugs)) Happy new year.
YES! I can totally … YES! I can totally relate to that. When I was thinner, it was more stress for me because of the attention. For me it was kinda connected with my difficulty with saying no sometimes. I knew that you were going to say “the pretty one” that EXACT thing happened to me as well. I was always called beautiful. I was abused also. Man, the things people do to each other that destroys us. I’m 47 and I still struggle. I’m subscribing to your channel. Thanks for your transparency.
littlewing,
I am … littlewing,
I am sorry you are going through this as well. I am doing so much better now that I no longer eat any trigger foods (in my case cooked vegan foods). I am 100% raw now. I still sabotage myself in other areas of life, but I am working through that too, and it gets better every day. It’s hard to find a balance, but it’s defiantly doable. It just requires constant attention and adjustments. I wish you health, vitality, happiness and peace.
Warmly,
Alexis
I found myself … I found myself finishing some of your sentences about self-sabotage and having trivial problems in comparison to others.
It’s great you could figure this out about yourself and I wish I could give advice on this but I have the same seemingly never-ending problem.
By the way that’s awesome that you are a fashion designer (explains the mannequin in the background) I want to get into fashion too hopefully once my eating problem/life is better..which is ironic considering the fashion industry..
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hotbabe4boyz
2010 Jun 01 1Need get rid of …
Need get rid of extra fat ? No Problem This new Diet Supplement will help you to get perfect results fast and easy. Also the results will last longer, Order Your Free trial today. See more at my profile
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 2Thank you. My goal …
Thank you. My goal is actually not to lose weight. I was and am at my ideal weight. My goal is really to improve my health and quality of life. I have found that by eating more fruits and greens (green smoothies are great for this), I feel better. I also feel better when I do yoga, and take walks, but I have not done yoga in a long time. Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I hope you and your family are happy and healthy.
peanutandcocobutter
2010 Jun 01 3thank you, I pray …
thank you, I pray that when you reach your weight loss goal that it leads you to more peace and happiness. Also, if you run into any information/materials that you think might be useful to me please vblog/contact me.
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 4Lately, what I have …
Lately, what I have been doing is primarily focusing on my work, which I love. When people bully me, I go through all the emotions, but as I encounter more of these people, I have started going through the emotions more quickly and with far less effect on my well-being. I am almost to the point where I skip ahead to simply learning from the criticism or ignoring it and feeling sorry for the perpetrator. Those people try to weaken us, but I am learning to use their attacks to strengthen myself.
peanutandcocobutter
2010 Jun 01 5Thank you for your …
Thank you for your kind words. Is there anything that your doing/reading/etc. to help you with your journey? Also, what do you do to maintain your sanity about mean spirited people? I internalize it and feel as though I coming off as a weak; and that I am not doing enough to stop abuse/bullying.
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 6It takes time but I …
It takes time but I am finally getting to the point where I feel safe enough to let my body be healthy (and attractive). Be kind and loving to yourself. ((hugs))
peanutandcocobutter
2010 Jun 01 7I can definitely …
I can definitely relate. Losing weight scares me because being overweight and muscular helps me feel as though I can protect myself and my daughter. However, I am not healthy and do feel unattractive. I am satisfied/happy because it give me a sense that I have a fighting chance. I am on a journey to shake the feeling off. (karate lessons is not in the budget)
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 8I just noticed that …
I just noticed that my comment to you was made on my husband’s computer, and was therefor under his name. I apologize for the confusion.
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 9Thank you so much!! …
Thank you so much!! ((hugs))
NYCINKEDEXEC
2010 Jun 01 10Your a beautiful …
Your a beautiful woman! I am so sorry for your past pain. You have a friend in me if you need one.
lmntal01
2010 Jun 01 11I’m sorry you have …
I’m sorry you have had to deal with similar issues. I am finally getting past mine and it feels so liberating. I still dress like a lump, but I am beginning to feel at home in my skin now. I hope you love your body too. ((hugs))
lmntal01
2010 Jun 01 12Thank you very much …
Thank you very much for watching.
mayaluvsmusic
2010 Jun 01 13you articulated “it …
you articulated “it” so many of us can’t
mayaluvsmusic
2010 Jun 01 14jesus christ, this …
jesus christ, this video really starts 3;26
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 15Thanks for watching …
Thanks for watching.
josielenore
2010 Jun 01 16Interesting!
Interesting!
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 17Melanie,
I’m so …
Melanie,
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. ((hugs)) I think of this line in a song Cindi Lauper song called “Little Boy Blue”. She said “He may have stolen your innocence, but not your soul”. And it’s true. I felt destroyed for a long time, and it still hurts, but they didn’t take away who I am, it just made me stronger…You too. ((hugs)) Happy new year.
melaniestevens
2010 Jun 01 18YES! I can totally …
YES! I can totally relate to that. When I was thinner, it was more stress for me because of the attention. For me it was kinda connected with my difficulty with saying no sometimes. I knew that you were going to say “the pretty one” that EXACT thing happened to me as well. I was always called beautiful. I was abused also. Man, the things people do to each other that destroys us. I’m 47 and I still struggle. I’m subscribing to your channel. Thanks for your transparency.
thrivesurvive
2010 Jun 01 19littlewing,
I am …
littlewing,
I am sorry you are going through this as well. I am doing so much better now that I no longer eat any trigger foods (in my case cooked vegan foods). I am 100% raw now. I still sabotage myself in other areas of life, but I am working through that too, and it gets better every day. It’s hard to find a balance, but it’s defiantly doable. It just requires constant attention and adjustments. I wish you health, vitality, happiness and peace.
Warmly,
Alexis
little120wing
2010 Jun 01 20I found myself …
I found myself finishing some of your sentences about self-sabotage and having trivial problems in comparison to others.
It’s great you could figure this out about yourself and I wish I could give advice on this but I have the same seemingly never-ending problem.
By the way that’s awesome that you are a fashion designer (explains the mannequin in the background) I want to get into fashion too hopefully once my eating problem/life is better..which is ironic considering the fashion industry..
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